Though it’s rarely as dramatic as the movies would have you believe, it often seems as though when things go wrong they all tend to go wrong at once. One minute everything seems fine, and the next thing you know your car’s broken down, your dog’s run away, your roof has sprung a leak, and you’re wondering what you did to deserve all this. But whether you call it karma, fate, or sheer dumb luck, once the world decides to start beating you up there isn’t much you can do about it, as the characters in All Between Us can attest.
It starts innocently enough (as it usually does) with a dinner party Clara (Denyce Lawton) and Ray (Brian Hooks) are throwing. They’re about to get married and Ray has so far only met Clara’s horrible parents Mr. and Mrs. Tillman (Carl Gilliard and Connie Johnson) via Skype, and this party is his chance to impress them in person. Of course this will never work since Clara’s parents have decided he’s useless, being a mere writer, and they really are horrible people besides. Clara’s brother Freddy (Esau McGraw), is also awful — though Mom and Dad think he can do no wrong — so I’m guessing Clara was adopted since she’s so much more human than the rest of the family. And Ray and Clara have more news that they don’t expect to go over well — Clara’s just found out she’s pregnant.
Also invited for moral support, of which they need plenty, are Clara’s best friend Mishawn (Tiffany Haddish) and her boyfriend Ty (Christian Levatino). Freddy and his equally wretched wife Aubyrn (Tabitha Brown) can’t stop harassing Ty for being a white man dating a black woman, at least when they aren’t busy making fun of Ray or even Clara. I really can’t emphasize enough the casual cruelty of this family. Most of the guests probably only showed up because they’d never met the Tillmans before and assumed that Clara was representative of how they acted. Certainly neighbor Chad (Kevin DeWitt) and hippie friends Billy (Mancini Graves) and Channel (Isley Nicole Melton) aren’t treated any better, though for some reason Mr. Tillman greatly approves of Ty. Maybe he does that randomly to keep people on their toes.
As you can imagine, the situation is already pretty doubtful even before things really start to fall apart. Secrets are revealed — and most of the guests do have at least one impressive skeleton in the closet — and what was already a painfully tense evening descends into absolute chaos. It probably doesn’t help that Ray’s best man Sam (Jay Phillips) shows up both extremely late and falling down drunk, despondent over his girlfriend having left him. And he’s far from the biggest disruption of the evening.
The movie suffers from pacing problems — the first half hour or so is mainly setup and it’s very slow setup, doing a lot of telling when they should be showing. By the time Freddy, for example, shows up on screen they’ve already said so much about him that he isn’t nearly as shocking as he could have been… though granted he’s still pretty shocking. Once things get properly underway, though, it becomes a quietly zany and entertaining slice of life film that even has a few wise words to say about life and relationships. I suppose watching relationships disintegrate can be informative. It’s one of those movies that will make you glad that your family isn’t quite as bad as you thought after all.